is more important than selfish desire to be her friend
I think you’re probably having too many assumptions about what people are saying, which betrays an inflexibility even stubbornness.
Worrying about approval is something weak people do, and weak people make poor parents.
“My way or the highway”, eh? That style of parenting went out of fashion for a reason.
Well we don’t “pre-open” the communities😅 . The hope is that emulation enthusiasts would naturally realize our instance is the best fit for that sort of thing.