• magnetosphere@fedia.io
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    3 months ago

    Someone asking to see my YouTube recommendations is a good test for red flags, too. I’m not interested in a relationship with someone who will judge me based on an algorithm.

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      3 months ago

      Most of my browser history, youtube and podcast recommendations etc. are benign.

      My fear is when they ask the question “when does VR Porn become cheating?” Because I don’t think anyone can answer that one honestly and the way one would expect.

      Like my brain would say “when you can smell it” but that leads down a lot of other questions that scare me.

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        3 months ago

        “when does VR Porn become cheating?”

        The same point anything else does. It’s when you’re getting involved with another person and your partner is not cool with that. If you’re just consuming media it’s not cheating.