Every Thanksgiving since I was a child, I’ve had to make something for Thanksgiving. Typically, and I think this goes for many Americans (and presumably Canadians cause they have a similar Thanksgiving), this involves sharing the kitchen with way too many cooks. It can be difficult to know what tools you’ll have in an unfamiliar kitchen, and when/if you’ll be able to use the stove, oven, etc.

I’m trying to move things towards a better model, where I make the entire menu, and other people are responsible for drinks and cleanup, but there are always holdouts determined whatever particular dish they feel strongly about.

My normal approach is:

• Insist on making the turkey. The turkey is the most common thing people mess up, and it sucks to have to choke down dry turkey.
• Bring an insane amount of my kitchen with me. Words can’t describe how frustrating it is to try to cook with only the world’s dullest knives, a thermometer that starts at 160 F for “rare beef”, and only a salt shaker of iodized salt.
• Do as many “make ahead of time” or “make outside of the kitchen” dishes as possible. Sous vide sweet potatoes, salads, etc.

What are your methods for ensuring that your Thanksgiving meal doesn’t suck?

P.s. My packing list for things to bring to cook at another person’s house contains:

Thermometers, knives, shears, a scale, cutting boards, rimmed baking sheets, cooling racks, a vegetable peeler, a microplane, a pepper grinder, kosher salt, aprons, a big mixing bowl or two, a cake tester, a bread knife, a citrus juicer, a few Mason jars, butcher twine, a gravy separator, all the herbs and spices I’ll need, a high wall saute pan, a sturdy frying pan, baking soda, baking powder, yeast, lemons, limes, butter, my sous vide circulator, heavy duty foil, and a liquid measuring cup.

Anything you think I’m missing?