Affirmative action is just an attempt to counter the existing systemic bias against minorities and women. It doesn’t bypass any requirements, it just makes it so that fewer hiring/accepting decisions are “just hire a white guy” because that is literally how many hiring decisions are made.

A white kid born to rich parents that can afford all the extra curriculars and who had personal tutors and was able to do an unpaid internship and has connections has an advantage on paper even without knowing the color of their skin. Affirmative action just means that someone who is far less likely to have those advantages but otherwise meets the minimum criteria gets a chance too.