Weirdbeardgame@lemmy.ml to Asklemmy@lemmy.ml · 1 year agoWhat's not a sign someone's an asshole, but is often misinterpreted as one?message-squaremessage-square37fedilinkarrow-up13arrow-down10
arrow-up13arrow-down1message-squareWhat's not a sign someone's an asshole, but is often misinterpreted as one?Weirdbeardgame@lemmy.ml to Asklemmy@lemmy.ml · 1 year agomessage-square37fedilink
minus-squareSighBapanada@lemmy.calinkfedilinkarrow-up0·1 year agoWell for one, I wish I could tell people no when they ask me to social events without being interpreted as an asshole
minus-squareTheImpressiveX@lemmy.mllinkfedilinkarrow-up1·1 year ago“I’d love to, but unfortunately I am busy tonight.”
minus-squareℕ𝕖𝕞𝕠@midwest.sociallinkfedilinkarrow-up0·1 year agoStill kinda rude. You have to at least imply you’ll try to swing by for a short time, as a bare minimum.
minus-squaremiss_brainfart@lemmy.mllinkfedilinkarrow-up1·1 year agoHonestly, in a situation like this, I don’t care. If I’m busy, I’m busy. And if politely telling them that is seen as rude, it’s not me who’s the problem.
Well for one, I wish I could tell people no when they ask me to social events without being interpreted as an asshole
“I’d love to, but unfortunately I am busy tonight.”
Still kinda rude. You have to at least imply you’ll try to swing by for a short time, as a bare minimum.
Honestly, in a situation like this, I don’t care. If I’m busy, I’m busy. And if politely telling them that is seen as rude, it’s not me who’s the problem.