• FabledAepitaph@lemmy.world
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    5 months ago

    I will never understand the drama over the word “female”.

    I set up a doctor’s appointment the other day, and I was asked if I had a doctor preference. I responded and said “I’d prefer a female doctor.” According to the internet, apparently I should have asked for a “woman doctor”.

    Reversing the gender, I’d be asking for either a “male doctor” or a “man doctor”. I will literally never use the phrase “I’d prefer a man doctor, please.” Because it has weird connotations, and doesn’t even roll off the tongue as well.

    So because I believe in male/female equality, I am necessarily required to treat them the same, with similar varieties of words.

    So what’s the problem? Give me a reason why I should use the less technical versions of words that invoke social-gender-stereotypes when I want to avoid all of that entirely.

    • SybilVane@lemmy.ca
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      5 months ago

      There’s a difference between using it as an adjective and a noun.

      Requesting “a female doctor” is not as bad as requesting “a female.”